Overcoming Spoiled Children
When children start leaving age of fewer than five, sometimes they’re still just spoiled. Even until the age of seven years or they already have a little brother, sometimes they still love to whine like a sister who was still a toddler. Children are usually spoiled by the treatment her parents who are too excessive in complying all of his requests. Whatever the kids requested, parents are always filled. Consequently, if their parents don’t fulfill the child’s request, he will do some whining and crying.
Spoiled characteristic of children also occurs in the case of a desire to always be close to their parents. It’s common that children who are in the school age are still always fights over her mother’s caress with his little sister.
Well, as a parent what do you have to do to cope with a spoiled child?
• Parents should have a strong will not to spoil the child. Spoiled behavior during this one because what they want is always obeyed.
• Begin to not spoil the children and teach independent living from small things. For example familiarize children take their own uniforms, taking food or drink by themselves.
• Measures not to spoil the children should also be done by other parent or other caregivers, not just by one person.
• Communicate it to your children start to teach them to have their own responsibility. Explain about priorities, that not all desired must be fulfilled.
• If the children are still ignoring the parents’ orders not to whine or cry, give the sense that the action was not true. Give hugs and support to calm the child.
• Parents must be consistent to not spoil the child, not just one or two days ago come back to spoil them.
• Give praise when the child is no longer whines when asking for something, so that children understand that parents are pleased when she began to change.
Hopefully it is useful!
