“Picky Eater” Can Turn into a Selfish Kid

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The impact of diet picky eater can be varied, such as nutrition disorders, such as lack of calories, protein, vitamins, minerals, electrolytes, and anemia (lack of blood). Calorie and protein deficiencies will result in growth disorders characterized by decreased weight gain or remain in a long time.

From the psychological side, picky eaters can also interfere with the child’s social development. They became accustomed to children who obey their own accord. They no longer appreciate the various types of food, also not used to appreciate the efforts of others, in this case parents who have struggled to make them eat. They have become a selfish child. Therefore, though usually will go away, picky eaters should be addressed. In terms of nutritional needs, children must be introduced to solid food since the age of 6 months. In this introductory period, parents and caregivers should continue to try to give solid food to children. Do not despair and give up easily.

Creative seeking replacement of foods that are not favored child, as well as an interesting presentation of how to get around also helps. For example hides an undesirable type of food into the child’s favorite food. Serve your child’s favorite meatballs, but do not forget to tuck carrots or broccoli in the dots meatballs. From the psychological side, parents should foster relationships between family members well and lovingly. Parents also need to avoid stress and do not get used to spit in front of the child’s stress. Do not forget, to create a comfortable dining atmosphere for the children. Remember, the reactions of the parents also determine the direction and the children’s learning processes on various things. If the parents reaction reinforces the behavior is difficult to eat, then what happened next was the son becomes difficult to eat. Conversely, if parents reinforce the behavior of the reaction is easy to eat, then the child is easy to eat. If you do this all with a loving, your child will again become a pleasant child, who would respect you, and no longer refuse any food served at the front.

When Children Start Lying

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Small children should always tell the truth, maybe you think so. Then few children are already good at lying?

The reason may be that the child wants something that can only be gained by lying. For example, the children claimed to have to do homework because they want to be watching TV. Other causes can be because he wants to protect himself from a certain punishment. Parental behavior could be imitated by the child. You might sometimes lie in front of your child. So, what’s the solution?

1. Immediately straighten and do not give children the opportunity to lie again. Embed this consistently that lying is the behavior that should be avoided because it will harm themselves or others. He could no longer be trusted by his friend, his friend did not want to play together, and others. That way, children should know why lie should not be done.

2. We may charge a penalty if their child is lying but that are educational, such as restrict access to watch favorite movies, do not buy the comic they wanted, etc.

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Becoming Stepparents

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There is no magic formula for creating a ‘perfect’ family of course because every family has their own privileges. The following tips may help you to create your new family more special.

Take your time
Do not expect any immediate or almost instantaneous results. Start with a relaxed attitude, did you know that the kids can tell if you’re being ‘feigned good’ or indeed good. Relax, do not worry! Your relationship will improve overtime.

Factors that affect your relationship
For children who lost their parents because of death or divorce, it takes much longer to accept you as their new parents. Because by your presence, It means that he lost all the hope their parents would get back together again. Read more…